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Matthew 6:9-13 - After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen.

 

This sermon is dedicated to the most Beautiful Woman and Friend I have ever known – My Late Wife, Susan Jennifer Jones

 

The Sermon for this week is - The Problem Of Suffering - it is given in three parts:

 

Part 1 - Why Does God Allow It?

Part 2 - Who Or What Causes It?

Part 3 - How Can We Prepare For It?

 

Part 1 - Why Does God Allow It?

 

INTRODUCTION

 

1. There is a question which is as old as the first tear, and as recent as the latest newscast:

“Why? Why does God allow suffering, sorrow, heartache, and death, even

among His own children?”

 

2. This question was asked by Job, and has been asked by every person who has walked upon the

face of the earth and who believes in God

 

3. It was asked by a Christian whose wife...

a. Received in a car wreck a broken arm, ribs, back, pelvis, leg, and over 200 fractures in her skull

b. Required over a month in ICU, and more than a year for complete recovery!

 

4. The answer he received from the Word of God were such an encouragement to me that I would like to share them with you...

 

I. SUFFERING KEEPS THIS WORLD FROM BECOMING TOO ATTRACTIVE

 

A. THE BIBLE TELLS US THAT WE ARE “PILGRIMS” AND “SOJOURNERS”...

 

1. This world is not truly our home

 

2. God has prepared something better for us

 

3. Consider the following passages: 1 Peter 2:11 - Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul; ; Hebrews 13:14 - For here have we no continuing city, but we seek one to come. ; 2 Corinthians 5:1 - For we know that if our earthly house of this tabernacle were dissolved, we have a building of God, an house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. ; 2 Corinthians 5:5 - Now he that hath wrought us for the selfsame thing is God, who also hath given unto us the earnest of the Spirit.

 

B. IF THERE WAS NO SUFFERING...

 

1. No one would want to leave this temporary world

 

2. No one would desire the “eternal” home, and therefore prepare themselves for it

 

C. BUT THE AFFAIRS OF THIS LIFE ARE SO ORDERED...

 

1. That the world soon loses its attraction

 

2. Most young people may want to live forever...

a. But by the time a man reaches his “three score and ten”

b. He begins to desire something better

 

II. SUFFERING CAN BRING OUT OUR BEST

 

A. THE MAN WHOSE WIFE WAS SERIOUSLY INJURED SAW THIS...

 

1. In the constant support by friends

 

2. In the preparation of food

 

3. In the financial support

 

B. WE SEE THIS OCCURRING QUITE FREQUENTLY...

 

1. In times of natural disaster

 

2. When someone loses a house to fire, tornado, etc.

 

3. In times of terminal illness

 

C. THIS MAY BE ONE REASON WHY EARLY CHRISTIANS REJOICED IN THEIR TRIALS...

 

1. They understood that tribulations could develop character

 

2. As Paul wrote in Romans 5:3-4 - And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope:

 

III. SUFFERING GIVES AN OCCASION TO SILENCE THE ENEMIES OF GOD

 

A. REMEMBER THE STORY OF JOB...?

 

1. Satan wanted to prove God wrong about Job, that he served God only because God had blessed him

 

2. But Job’s patience under suffering silenced Satan!

 

B. LIKEWISE, GOD DESIRES THAT WE SILENCE “FOOLISH MEN” - 1 Peter 2:15 - For so is the will of God, that with well doing ye may put to silence the ignorance of foolish men:

 

1. Who ridicule the teachings of Christ as foolishness

 

2. Who say we are Christians only for what good we can get out of it

 

C. BY PATIENTLY ENDURING, OR DOING GOOD IN TIMES OF SUFFERING...

 

1. The value of being Christians really shines through

 

2. In the faith we have that sustains us in suffering, and in the love we show towards those who suffer

 

IV. SUFFERING MAKES US APPRECIATIVE

 

A. WE ALL RECEIVE SO MANY GOOD THINGS IN THIS LIFE...

 

1. It is easy for us to become prone to take them for granted

 

2. Instead of receiving them with gratitude toward God

 

B. SUFFERING CAN HELP US APPRECIATE MORE FULLY...

 

1. Good health

 

2. Good friends, and a loving family

 

3. A good example of how suffering can make one appreciative is the apostle Paul when he was in prison - cf. Philippians 1:3-8 - I thank my God upon every remembrance of you, Always in every prayer of mine for you all making request with joy, For your fellowship in the gospel from the first day until now; Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ: Even as it is meet for me to think this of you all, because I have you in my heart; inasmuch as both in my bonds, and in the defence and confirmation of the gospel, ye all are partakers of my grace. For God is my record, how greatly I long after you all in the bowels of Jesus Christ.

 

V. SUFFERING MAKES US MORE DEPENDENT UPON GOD

 

A. TOO OFTEN, WE THINK OURSELVES SELF-SUFFICIENT...

 

1. “But when a dozen of the most skilled men in their profession tell you they have done all they can and it is completely out of their hands...”

 

2. “...you suddenly realize how much you depend on God.”

 

B. AT NO OTHER TIME...

 

1. Is one more likely to realize that we depend upon God for our very breath!

 

2. As Paul proclaimed: Acts 17:28 - For in him we live, and move, and have our being; as certain also of your own poets have said, For we are also his offspring.

 

VI. SUFFERING HELPS PURIFIES US

 

A. CONSIDER THE IMPORT OF TWO PASSAGES...

 

1. 1 Peter 1:6-7 - Wherein ye greatly rejoice, though now for a season, if need be, ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations: That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ:

 

2. James 1:2-5 - My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing. If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

 

B. TO ILLUSTRATE HOW, CONSIDER THE MAN WHOSE WIFE WAS INJURED...

 

1. “Many times I searched my own life during these past six weeks in order to confess my every failure and shortcoming to God.”

 

2. “I surely did not want my own sins to stand in the way of God hearing my prayers for Jane.”

 

3. “It was absolutely necessary to be truthful with God and myself, and I am a better man today than before.”

 

VII. SUFFERING MAKES US SYMPATHETIC

 

A. PAUL WROTE OF THIS VALUE OF AFFLICTION...

 

1. To the church at Corinth, in his second epistle - 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 - Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.

 

2. It helps us to be better able to comfort others in their affliction

 

B. WE MAY THINK WE CAN SYMPATHIZE WITH SOMEONE...

 

1. But until we have been there personally, there is no true understanding of their hurt

 

2. Experiencing suffering...

a. Makes us more likely to “weep with those who weep” - Romans 12:15 - Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.

b. Better enables us to serve others

 

VIII. SUFFERING TEACHES US HOW TO PRAY

 

A. WE ALL MAY BE A PRAYING PEOPLE...

 

1. We pray at the right times

 

2. We pray for the right things

 

B. BUT IN THE MIDST OF SUFFERING WE LEARN HOW TO PRAY...

 

1. “Earnestly”

 

2. “Perseveringly”

 

3. “With groanings which cannot be uttered” - Romans 8:26

 

C. AS OUR FRIEND SAID...

 

1. “I have been a praying man since I became a Christian. But never like this.”

 

2. “I have learned more about prayer in the past six weeks than in the previous twenty years.

 

My prayers will be different for the rest of my life.”

 

CONCLUSION

 

1. Can we begin to see why a righteous and merciful God would allow suffering, even to the innocent?

 

2. If we look at suffering purely from man’s point of view, we will not understand why suffering is permitted

 

3. But remember what God said through the prophet Isaiah: Isaiah 55:8-9 - For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.

 

4. When we look at suffering from God’s point of view, from the viewpoint of His plans for us in preparation of eternity, then we can begin to appreciate why He would allow suffering to occur...

 

5. And never forget those words of Paul, which reminds us of God’s never failing love:

 

Romans 8:35-39 - Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

 

May God be praised!

Part 2 - Who Or What Causes It?

 

INTRODUCTION

 

1. In the previous lesson, we saw through the eyes of one suffering Christian that suffering can often bring about very positive results:

a. It keeps the world from becoming too attractive

b. It can bring out our best

c. It gives an occasion to silence the enemies of God

d. It makes us appreciative for things often taken for granted

e. It makes us depend on God

f. It can purify us

g. It makes us sympathetic

h. It teaches us how to pray

-- In light of these, perhaps we can begin to understand why God would allow suffering to exist

 

2. In this lesson, we shall cover an even more difficult question: “Who or what is responsible for the suffering which God allows to exist?”

a. Is it the work of God Himself?

b. Is it Satan?

c. Or is it simply natural consequences in a world of cause and effect?

 

3. In dealing with this, I do not propose to have all the answers; but I share with you those thoughts which I believe are in harmony with the Word of God...

 

I. SUFFERING MAY BE “THE RESULT OF OUR OWN ACTIONS”

 

A. GOD HAS CREATED A WORLD GOVERNED BY NATURAL LAWS...

 

1. Laws of cause and effect

 

2. Laws of action and reaction

 

3. Laws of sowing and reaping

 

B. IF WE VIOLATE THESE LAWS, THE CONSEQUENCES ARE OFTEN GRAVE...

 

1. Like stepping off a ten story building

 

2. Or running out in front of a truck

 

3. Or feeding one’s body constantly with “junk” food

 

4. Or exposing oneself to contagious diseases, dangerous chemicals, pollution, etc.

 

C. IN SUCH CASES, SUFFERING IS EXPERIENCED...

 

1. Because, whether knowingly or unknowingly, some natural law has been violated

 

2. It is not because we are evil or because we are good (i.e., there is no moral significance to this suffering)

 

D. WHAT REALLY HURTS, HOWEVER...

 

1. Is when we suffer because someone else violates a natural law

 

2. E.g., a car wreck caused by someone else’s carelessness

 

3. E.g., child abuse by an alcoholic parent

 

[This explains much of the suffering endured in our lives. Some would say that all suffering is the result of violating natural laws, and that God or Satan have absolutely no hand in suffering whatsoever. I believe the Bible teaches otherwise...]

 

II. SUFFERING MAY BE “THE WORK OF SATAN”

 

A. THE BIBLE PRESENTS SATAN AS A CAUSE OF SUFFERING...

 

1. As in the case of Job - Job 1:6-12 - Now there was a day when the sons of God came to present themselves before the LORD, and Satan came also among them. And the LORD said unto Satan, Whence comest thou? Then Satan answered the LORD, and said, From going to and fro in the earth, and from walking up and down in it. And the LORD said unto Satan, Hast thou considered my servant Job, that there is none like him in the earth, a perfect and an upright man, one that feareth God, and escheweth evil? Then Satan answered the LORD, and said, Doth Job fear God for nought? Hast not thou made an hedge about him, and about his house, and about all that he hath on every side? thou hast blessed the work of his hands, and his substance is increased in the land. But put forth thine hand now, and touch all that he hath, and he will curse thee to thy face. And the LORD said unto Satan, Behold, all that he hath is in thy power; only upon himself put not forth thine hand. So Satan went forth from the presence of the LORD. ; Job 2:1-6 - Again there was a day when the sons of God came to present themselves before the LORD, and Satan came also among them to present himself before the LORD. And the LORD said unto Satan, From whence comest thou? And Satan answered the LORD, and said, From going to and fro in the earth, and from walking up and down in it. And the LORD said unto Satan, Hast thou considered my servant Job, that there is none like him in the earth, a perfect and an upright man, one that feareth God, and escheweth evil? and still he holdeth fast his integrity, although thou movedst me against him, to destroy him without cause. And Satan answered the LORD, and said, Skin for skin, yea, all that a man hath will he give for his life. But put forth thine hand now, and touch his bone and his flesh, and he will curse thee to thy face. And the LORD said unto Satan, Behold, he is in thine hand; but save his life.

same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world.

 

2. As in the case of persecuted Christians – 1st Peter 5:8-9 - Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: Whom resist stedfast in the faith, knowing that the

 

3. Satan’s objective: that we might curse God (as some do when they experience suffering)

 

B. BUT WHY DOES GOD ALLOW SATAN TO TEST US SO...?

 

1. Because God is able to use such suffering to make us better!

a. E.g., Paul and his “thorn in the flesh” - 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 - And lest I should be exalted above measure through the abundance of the revelations, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should be exalted above measure. For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me. And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.

b. Remember that the trying of our faith can produce good results - James 1:2-4 - My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.

 

2. Also, consider what God will do for those who endure Satan’s “shenanigans”:

a. He will - 1st Peter 5:10a - make you perfect, stablish,

b. He will - 1st Peter 5:10b - strengthen, settle you.

 

C. WE CAN ALSO TAKE CONSOLATION IN KNOWING THAT SATAN HAS HIS LIMITS...

 

1. As in the case of Job, God will let Satan go only so far

 

2. As promised in Paul’s letter to the Corinthians:

a. 1 Corinthians 10:13a - God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able;

b. 1 Corinthians 10:13b - but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.

 

[So Satan is often permitted to bring suffering upon the righteous. His purpose: to devour us, to get us to curse God. But by the grace of God we are able to use that suffering to perfect, establish, strengthen and settle ourselves as the children of God! Is there ever a time when God Himself may bring suffering upon His children? I believe the Bible teaches there is...]

 

III. SUFFERING MAY BE “THE CHASTISEMENT OF GOD”

 

A. THAT GOD CHASTENS HIS CHILDREN IS TAUGHT IN BOTH TESTAMENTS...

 

1. In the Old Testament:

a. “You should know in your heart that as a man chastens his son, so the LORD your God chastens you.” - Deuteronomy 8:5 - Thou shalt also consider in thine heart, that, as a man chasteneth his son, so the LORD thy God chasteneth thee.

b. “My son, do not despise the chastening of the LORD, nor detest His correction; for whom the LORD loves He corrects, just as a father the son in whom he delights. - Proverbs 3:11-12 - My son, despise not the chastening of the LORD; neither be weary of his correction: For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.

 

2. In the New Testament:

a. “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten. Therefore be zealous and repent.” - Revelation 3:19 - As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.

b. Hebrews 12:5-8 - And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him: For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.

 

B. WHAT WOULD BE GOD’S PURPOSE IN CHASTISING HIS CHILDREN...?

 

1. Certainly not because He delights in doing so - cf. Lamentations 3:31-33 - For the Lord will not cast off for ever: But though he cause grief, yet will he have compassion according to the multitude of his mercies. For he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men.

 

2. But because it may be necessary...

a. To correct - Hebrews 12:9 - Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?

b. That we may be partakers of His holiness - Hebrews 12:10 - For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.

c. That we may yield the peaceable fruit of righteousness - Hebrews 12:11 - Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

 

3. Only so we will not be condemned with the world - 1 Corinthians 11:32 - But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world.

 

C. WHEN WOULD GOD CHASTEN US...?

 

1. Only when we do not correct ourselves! - 1 Corinthians 11:31 - For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged.

 

2. Only when we are in danger of being condemned with the world! - 1 Corinthians 11:32 - But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world.

 

D. HOW DOES GOD CHASTEN HIS CHILDREN...?

 

1. Consider how God tried to correct the erring nation of Israel - cf. Amos 4:6-12 - And I also have given you cleanness of teeth in all your cities, and want of bread in all your places: yet have ye not returned unto me, saith the LORD. And also I have withholden the rain from you, when there were yet three months to the harvest: and I caused it to rain upon one city, and caused it not to rain upon another city: one piece was rained upon, and the piece whereupon it rained not withered. So two or three cities wandered unto one city, to drink water; but they were not satisfied: yet have ye not returned unto me, saith the LORD. I have smitten you with blasting and mildew: when your gardens and your vineyards and your fig trees and your olive trees increased, the palmerworm devoured them: yet have ye not returned unto me, saith the LORD. I have sent among you the pestilence after the manner of Egypt: your young men have I slain with the sword, and have taken away your horses; and I have made the stink of your camps to come up unto your nostrils: yet have ye not returned unto me, saith the LORD. I have overthrown some of you, as God overthrew Sodom and Gomorrah, and ye were as a firebrand plucked out of the burning: yet have ye not returned unto me, saith the LORD. Therefore thus will I do unto thee, O Israel: and because I will do this unto thee, prepare to meet thy God, O Israel.

a. These were not miraculous or supernatural events

b. But acts of nature brought on by the providential working of God!

 

2. If God would use His Providence in an attempt to get the nation of Israel to repent before it was too late...

a. Would not the same loving God use His providential workings to chastise His erring children today?

b. Does He love us any less? - cf. 1 Corinthians 11:30-32 - For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep. For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged. But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world. ; Revelation 2:20-23 - Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols. And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works.

 

3. I know of no scriptural reason why God could not or would not use His Providence to bring about events in our lives which can hopefully serve to:

a. Wake us up

b. Cause us to reflect on our lives and our relationship to God

c. Encourage us to repent and turn back to Him if we are straying

 

CONCLUSION

 

1. The gist of what I am saying is this: When we experience suffering in our lives...

a. It may be we have violated some law of nature

1) In this case, there is no moral significance involved

2) It is not because one is good or bad

b. It may be the work of Satan

1) In this case, it is because we are righteous in God’s sight

2) And Satan is trying to devour us, to get us to rebel against God

c. It may be the chastisement of God

1) If so, it is only because...

a) He loves us

b) He sees that we are heading in a direction which if left unchecked would result in the damnation of our souls!

2) God won’t stop us from sinning, but through His providential workings in the affairs of this world He might try to get us to reflect upon what we are doing!

 

2. How can we determine when any particular suffering is from God, Satan or neither?

a. I don’t believe we can

b. Unless, of course, one’s sin is so blatant...

 

3. How then shall we react to suffering?

a. If in every case of suffering we approach it from the viewpoint that it might be God in love chastening us...

b. And if we use the occasion of suffering to: examine our lives and relationship with God, and draw closer to God...

c. Then...

1) If it is from God, it fulfills His purpose!

2) If it is from Satan, it frustrates his purpose!

3) If it is neither, it still brings us closer to God!

 

Our final study will consider how we can best prepare for suffering...

Part 3 - How Can We Prepare For It?

 

INTRODUCTION

 

1. In our study of the problem of suffering thus far; we have looked at why God allows it to exist and examined some of the possible causes of suffering

 

2. Even so, I still admit there is much we may not understand - but perhaps we are closer to being able to use suffering in our lives for good and glory of God, and for the betterment of ourselves!

 

3. In this final lesson, I wish to suggest some ways we can prepare ourselves for suffering that might come our way

 

[There are several things that we can develop in our lives which will help us to deal with the problem of suffering. The first is...]

 

I. DEVELOP TRUST IN GOD THROUGH AN ACTIVE “BIBLE LIFE”

 

A. SCRIPTURES ABOUND WITH PROMISES THAT GOD IS WITH HIS CHILDREN IN THEIR TROUBLES...

 

1. In the Old Testament, cf. Psalms 46:1-3 - God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah. ; Psalms 55:22 - Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.

 

2. In the New Testament, cf. Romans 8:35-39 - Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. ; 1 Peter 5:6-7 - Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

 

B. TO RECEIVE THIS WONDERFUL HELP OF GOD IN TIMES OF TROUBLE...

 

1. We must trust in Him!

 

2. As the prophet Nahum implied in Nahum 1:7 - The LORD is good, a strong hold in the day of trouble; and he knoweth them that trust in him.

 

3. As promised in the song written by Isaiah in Isaiah 26:3-4 - Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee. Trust ye in the LORD for ever: for in the LORD JEHOVAH is everlasting strength:

 

C. HOW DO WE DEVELOP SUCH TRUST...?

 

1. Faith (a synonym for trust) comes through the Word of God! - Romans 10:17 - So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

 

2. Those who read and meditate upon the Word develop that sort of trust which sustains them in all things - cf. Psalms 119:165 - Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.

 

3. This is just another reason why we need to be diligent in our daily reading of the Bible!

 

4. Then we can be like that “blessed” man described in the first three verses of Psalms 1:1-3 - Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night. And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.

 

[At the same time, we need to...]

 

II. DEVELOP COMMUNION WITH GOD THROUGH AN ACTIVE “PRAYER LIFE”

 

A. THE BIBLE TEACHES US TO PRAY IN TIMES OF SUFFERING (James 5:13 - Is any among you afflicted? let him pray. Is any merry? let him sing psalms.)

 

1. Jesus certainly did during His greatest trials

a. In the garden of Gethsemane - Matthew 26:36-44 - Then cometh Jesus with them unto a place called Gethsemane, and saith unto the disciples, Sit ye here, while I go and pray yonder. And he took with him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and began to be sorrowful and very heavy. Then saith he unto them, My soul is exceeding sorrowful, even unto death: tarry ye here, and watch with me. And he went a little further, and fell on his face, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt. And he cometh unto the disciples, and findeth them asleep, and saith unto Peter, What, could ye not watch with me one hour? Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak. He went away again the second time, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if this cup may not pass away from me, except I drink it, thy will be done. And he came and found them asleep again: for their eyes were heavy. And he left them, and went away again, and prayed the third time, saying the same words.

b. While on the cross at Calvary - Luke 23:34 - Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots. ; Luke 23:46 - And when Jesus had cried with a loud voice, he said, Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit: and having said thus, he gave up the ghost.

 

2. We find the early church fervent in prayer when their leaders were being persecuted – Acts 12:1-5 - Now about that time Herod the king stretched forth his hands to vex certain of the church. And he killed James the brother of John with the sword. And because he saw it pleased the Jews, he proceeded further to take Peter also. (Then were the days of unleavened bread.) And when he had apprehended him, he put him in prison, and delivered him to four quaternions of soldiers to keep him; intending after Easter to bring him forth to the people. Peter therefore was kept in prison: but prayer was made without ceasing of the church unto God for him. ; Acts 12:12 - And when he had considered the thing, he came to the house of Mary the mother of John, whose surname was Mark; where many were gathered together praying.

 

B. THIS IS BECAUSE IN PRAYER...

 

1. We receive the inner peace necessary to sustain us in our trials - Philippians 4:6-7 - Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

 

2. But the time to develop our “prayer life” is now!

a. Before suffering comes - cf. Jeremiah 12:5 - If thou hast run with the footmen, and they have wearied thee, then how canst thou contend with horses? and if in the land of peace, wherein thou trustedst, they wearied thee, then how wilt thou do in the swelling of Jordan?

1) If our strength is small when dealing with the minor frustrations of life...

2) ...then how will we be able to be strong when faced with major difficulties that suffering often brings?

b. So God will already be a friend with Whom we are close, and not a stranger!

 

[We also need to...]

 

III. DEVELOP CHRISTIAN FRIENDSHIPS THROUGH AN ACTIVE “CHURCH LIFE”

 

A. THE “PREACHER” IN ECCLESIASTES WROTE OF THE VALUE OF HAVING FRIENDS (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 - Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.)

 

1. They can help each other in their troubles

 

2. But “woe” to those who must face suffering alone!

 

B. GOD INTENDED FOR THE CHURCH TO PROVIDE THIS KIND OF MUTUAL ENCOURAGEMENT...

 

1. As members together in the body of Christ, we are to have the same care for one another - 1 Corinthians 12:24-27 - For our comely parts have no need: but God hath tempered the body together, having given more abundant honour to that part which lacked: That there should be no schism in the body; but that the members should have the same care one for another. And whether one member suffer, all the members suffer with it; or one member be honoured, all the members rejoice with it. Now ye are the body of Christ, and members in particular.

 

2. Those who are strong are exhorted to help those who are weak - 1 Thessalonians 5:14 - Now we exhort you, brethren, warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men.

 

C. THE BEST WAY TO DEVELOP SUCH HELPFUL RELATIONSHIPS...

 

1. Take an active part in the “family life” of the local church

a. Become involved

b. Make your presence felt

1) By frequent and consistent assembling with the church

2) By voluntary participation in the work of the church

c. Visit the sick, help the needy, encourage the weak, assimilate the new members

1) Helping others in their time of suffering can “soften” the shock of suffering in your own life

2) E.g., visiting the sick in hospitals, or the bereaved at funerals will make it easier for you when it comes your turn

d. So become more than just a “pew-warmer”!

 

2. Those who do such things will never lack support in their time of trouble!

a. I.e., if you are not diligent to visit others in their time of need...

b. ...don’t be surprised if others are not quick to come to your side when the need is there (not that they shouldn’t, but it be can difficult to effectively assist those who choose to remain aloof in their relationship with others)

 

CONCLUSION

 

1. By developing...

a. Trust in God through an active “Bible life”

b. Communion with God through an active “prayer life”

c. And Christian friendships through an active “church life”

...we can go a long way in preparing ourselves to deal with adversity

 

2. Burdens can either shatter or strengthen our faith...

a. Which it will be for us depends upon how well we have prepared ourselves

b. Jesus taught that the key to overcoming the “storms” of life lies in laying the proper foundation, one created by both hearing and doing His Word - Matthew 7:24-27 - Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock: And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock. And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand: And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.

Are we preparing ourselves for the days of suffering that most of us will likely face...?

 

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 - To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.

 

Though this may be true, let us remember the encouraging words of the writer to the Hebrews:

Hebrews 4:14-16 - Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession. For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.

 

May we all find that wonderful “mercy” and “grace” in our times of need!

 

Mark 16:15-16 - And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature. He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.  ; Matthew 28:19-20 - Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.

 

Prayer: Lord I truly thank You for giving me the opportunity to present these words to my brethrens. I pray that You will give them Your eternal blessings and accept them into Your heart - this  I pray in the name of Thy Son, Jesus, the Messiah, Your only begotten son which Ye sent to save mankind from themselves. Ephesians 6:23-24 - Peace be to the brethren, and love with faith, from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. Grace be with all them that love our Lord Jesus Christ in sincerity. Amen.

 

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